Message 031
Living in the shadow of realism
A man who respects his wife refrains from many things in public that might create the impression of insufficiency at home. The reverse is also true for a woman who loves her husband. Society frowns on widows and widowers who want to settle with another partner, 3 months after one partner is gone! There is a shadow over who we are and what we truly may want to do. Our true selves come to the fore when the covering is removed.bolsa de pierna decathlon
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If you are a father, you must know that your presence prevents many things. Sometimes the gossip which goes on that “Daddy is coming’ is not always negative. Children in their naivety may want to try several things. Preventing them from trying such things may save them from callosity, addiction and some bad mannerism.
Built in all of us as humans is the propensity to want to be free from restrictions, incumbrances and even permission seeking. When a woman is financially independent and still submits to her husband, then you can honestly say that she loves her husband and believes in the instructions of the Bible. There are stories of some women providing for the home, paying for school fees but channeling all through their men, only to keep the sanctity of the home, portraying to the children that their father is in charge. Wow!
I have seen many young people walk to my office saying, “I have written songs and am looking for a producer.” I have over the period come to realise that most of them do not mean it. They have just heard that its easy to make money through music, or they want to become stars. Yet they do not want to be committed to the conditions attached to it. Nevertheless, there are many with great business start-up ideas. Sometimes I speak to some of them and get amazed with what they want to do. I have helped some, partnered with others. There is usually one same kind of results. They make me remember the biblical caution that says, “beware of wolf in sheep clothing.”
From the beginning such entities will see you like a god! Anything you say, even without checking they will swallow. The true colors begin to show up when they gain grounds and attain the financial muscle. They employ others to expand their team and dream. You are happy for them to see that something you were once associated is doing well. Now they begin to see you to be a threat to their existence and growth. You see them being secretive, avoiding you etc. Your counsel does not matter anymore because better people have come their way! This is unique in many Ghanaian cultures. Many uncivilized successful people begin to bewitch their parents and family as soon as they become successful. They will lead an affluent lifestyle and refuse to go home. When they must remit home, they send a stipend that will not make their parents presume that they are well endowed. My question has always been this “your mother who is a witch, spared your life, nursed and nurtured you, waiting for you to be rich so that she can kill you? Belonging to a society of like-minded people with better opportunities is not wrong, what is wrong is for you to forget your roots and values that made you who you are, making you to degrade and relegate your very own as underdogs.
Lessons:
1. Celebrate the people who helped you get to the top and support them if you can.
2. Ensure that your children and those who look up to you are imbibing good principles that will stay with them for life. The Bible says, “train up a child the way he should go so that when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
3. When you sacrifice for the sake of people you believe in, it is spiritual for them to remember what you did for them and show you appreciation.
4. God can use you to raise or help people who will be a hundred-fold successful than yourself. If this is God’s assignment for you, don’t be hesitant in executing it because there is a bigger world to be reached with resources from such people you helped to succeed.
5. Never conclude that people around you love you so much that is why they get close. Their real opportunities to exist have not come yet.