Education is important but heeding to advice is priceless! You all start from class 1 and finish the University either in the same year or 1 or 2 years apart. By then some will have fallen by the roadside. But when you started life’s race, you were all confident and passionate about what you would want to become. You begin working. Marriage comes in, then Children. At this point your focus and responsibilities increase. There can be ideas from all sides of the table – some you ignore, others you don’t give them a dog chance. The world around you must be happinesses! No one wants to confront issues, there is no introspection, there is no vision to be supported. You realize that you are alone and burdened with your dreams. How does love turn to hate? It’s just a thin line in between – when perspectives are different, when life, or better still, the accuser of the brethren, takes over your thoughts and actions – he makes you become so confident about nothing. Every little thing takes so much attention and takes all your time and effort. Reading the Bible and praying have become old skull. The precepts, responsibilities and fruits of parenthood means little. However, the investment, the denials, the corrections and the rebukes you give your children – some people call it suffering – the good book says it produces Perseverance. When you possess the virtue of perseverance, it produces character. Yes Character! Character is intangible but visible. Your circle of life – school colleagues, work colleagues, church members and other societies you join – they see and evaluate character. When a position or responsibility comes up, people will use your character, among other things, to assess whether you fit it or not. Character produces hope to the people. Hope can be positive or negative. And this hope does not disappoint. Thus – people are so sure that you deserve this post OR on the contrary they will bet with their last Pesewa that you must not be given a dog chance! When will life be fair? Have you tasted the soup in which salt tastes bitter? I know that the bitter taste is not from the salt. That taste was imagined before salt was added to the steaming meat-stalk to be used for the soup. Nothing is wrong with the meat! Nothing is wrong with the preparation process, not even the cook! Oh, how we hastily conclude and judge others! All animals may run, but when the cow begins to run we describe it to be a mad cow. Synergy is simple – combining our efforts, decisions, resources. I have seen low-class couples build huge businesses, make an enviable home with well cultured and trained children who fit into society. But it eludes medical doctors, lawyers and even pastors. If you have seen a genecology specialist married to another medical doctor and they cannot conceive a child, it will help you value the power of synergy. Incompatible ideas, mistrust, myopic views on issues they all waste the time of partners. Be patient, It won’t be long, the end shall soon come. Be patient, It won’t be long, the truth and realities shall be revealed. Be patient, It won’t be long, the frog shall die and we will know it’s true length. God shall supply ALL our needs accordingly to his riches in glory. Cast your burdens unto Him, HE CARES